Hong Kong's education system places great emphasis on academic results, but parents all know that good character as well as good grades is the truly important goal. Moral education cannot rely on preaching; it needs to be instilled and practised bit by bit in daily life.
Setting an example is better than preaching
Children's strongest way of learning is imitation. If parents often lie at home or do not respect others, it is hard for children to learn honesty and respect. Conversely, if parents lead by example, children will naturally follow.
Practising moral education in daily life
Opportunities are everywhere: teach patience and fairness when queuing, teach generosity when sharing with others, teach honesty and responsibility when borrowing things. These seemingly ordinary everyday moments are in fact great opportunities for moral education.
How to handle moral problems
When children have moral problems (for example, lying, hitting others, or not respecting others), do not merely punish them; instead let children understand why doing so is wrong. You can ask "how would you feel if someone treated you that way?" to guide them towards empathy.