Why Does Your Child Not Want to Go to School?
- Separation anxiety — not used to being away from primary caregiver
- Social difficulties — no friends or being bullied
- Academic pressure — too difficult homework or exam stress
- Environmental changes — new school, new teachers, classmate changes
How to Handle It
Understand the Real Reason
Do not rush to blame. Ask patiently about the specific reasons.
Gradual Adaptation
For separation anxiety, start with short periods at school and gradually increase time.
Build Positive Expectations
Share fun experiences from your own school days.
Work with the School
Communicate with teachers to understand what is happening and develop solutions together.
Prevention Methods
- Give children opportunities to play with peers early
- Familiarize children with the school environment before enrollment
- Establish a consistent separation ritual